WOMEN IN HER CHILDHOOD

A girl is very dear to her parents. Before her attaining the age of puberty, she is free from any religious obligation. She is supposed to enjoy her life at her father's house with the single motto;  eat, drink and be merry. She enjoys the love and affection of her parents, her sisters, brothers and other relatives. When she starts speaking, the parents should teach her the basics of the religion and faith. The childhood is an age of learning. A child attains considerable amount of knowledge till the age of five that she would never get throughout her life. This is the period when the first schooling of the child starts with her first teacher, The mother.

When the girl is five-year-old, she should be taught lessons of personal hygiene. She should also be given training in human behaviour with special emphasis on adopting good things and discarding bad habits. This is also the time to start her education. The education should start with the learning of the Holy Quraan. She should memorize at least the last few Suras of the 30th Part of the Holy Quraan especially Sura Fateha, Sura An-Naas, Sura Al-Falaq, Sura Ikhlaas, Sura Al-Kafiroon. She should know the Islamic way of purification, Wudu (ablution) and Ghusl (bath).

At the age of seven the girl should be taught the fundamentals of Islam such as Salaah. This is the age when the girl should cultivate the habit of Pardah. She should also be taught washing of utensils, minor stitching jobs and other domestic chores of common nature. She should be suitably admonished for her idling, laziness, carelessness and mischief. She should not be allowed to mingle with the girls and women of low character. She should be kept away from evils of reading romantic literature, seeing movies and listening to music, etc. These evils adversely affect the morale of the child and encourage her to adopt bigger evils.

~ WHAT A BEAUTIFUL DEATH ~

“After performing Salat Al Maghrib, she put on her make-up, wore her beautiful white dress preparing herself for her wedding party, Then she heard the Adhan of ‘Ishaa and she realized that she broke her Wudu…she told her mother:

“Mother, I have to go to make wudu and pray ‘Ishaa”
Her mother was shocked: “Are you in ur right frame of mind?!. Guests are waiting for you, to see u! what about your make –up? It will be all washed away by water!!” then she added
” I am your mother and I order you not to perform salah now! if you make wudu now, I will be angry at you”

Her daughter replied : ”Wallahi I won’t go out from here till I perform my salah! Mother you must know that, ‘There is no obedience to any creature in disobedience to the Creator!’

Her mother said:”What would our guests say about you when you’ll show up in ur wedding party without make-up?! You won’t be beautiful in their eyes! and They will make fun of you!”

The daughter asked with a smile: ”Are you worried because I won’t be beautiful in the eyes of created beings? What about my Creator?! I am worried because, if I miss my salah, I won’t be beautiful in His eyes!”

She started to make wudu, and all her make-up was washed away, but she didn’t care…
Then she began her salah and at the moment she bowed down to make sujud, she didn’t realize that it will be her last one!
Yes! She died while in sujud!

What a great ending for a Muslimah who insisted on obeying her Lord!!

SOME RIGHTS OF A MUSLIMAH lN ISLAM

SOME RIGHTS OF A MUSLIMAH lN ISLAM ?

1.The right and duty to obtain education.

2. The right to have their own independent property.

3. The right to work to earn money if they need it or want it.

4. Equality of reward for equal deeds.

5. The right to express their opinion and be heard.

6. The right to provisions from the husband for all her needs and more.

7. The right to negotiate marriage terms of her choice.

8. The right to obtain divorce from her husband, even on the grounds that she simply can't stand him. (please note that Allah deeply frowns upon divorce as a solution unless there is hardly any other alternative but it does not mean that men have more right to divorce their wives than women do.)

9. The right to keep all her own money (she is not responsible to maintain any relations).

10. Custody of their children after divorce.

11.To refuse any marriage that does not please them.

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"IS LOVE HARAM IN ISLAM"

Dear Muslimah

Some Muslims always ask :”why don’t you want us to love?!! is love Haram in Islam?!!”

Asking whether love is Haram or not is just like asking whether food is Haram or not, or whether money is Haram or not
Because as food and money, love is a Rizq (provision) from Allah
Look to what Prophet Mohammad (sallaAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) said about the love of Khadijah (radhyaAllahu ‘anha) :”Allah provided me her love”

… MashaAllah! her love was a Rizq for him!
Now, the question is : if the money is collected through Haram ways, will it be Halal to spend from it? Of course not!!
And if food is bought through Haram money, will it be Halal to eat from it? Of course not!!

look to this Hadith : Prophet Mohammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) mentioned a man having journeyed far, is disheveled and dusty and who spreads out his hands to the sky (saying): O Lord! O Lord! - While his food is Haram, his drink is Haram, his clothing is Haram, and his nourishment is Haram, so how can his dua be answered! (Sahih Muslim)

So every provision which is got through Haram, is surely Haram
And as every other Rizq, love which is got through Haram (through love relationship before marriage, bf/gf relationship …) will surely be Haram… even if the couple get married after a love relationship before marriage, their love won’t be blessed because they got it through Allah’s Dissatisfaction .

SO, dear sister make sure to have that pure Halal love found only after marriage in shaa Allah

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